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A Few Guidelines That May Help You As A Parent
Being a parent now for nearly sixteen years I really understand the fine balance between toddler discipline, and squashing the spirit of a kid.
When my first daughter Ellie was born I was completely new with this thing termed parenting, and I found a lot of the parenting books to be contradictory at best and a few just plain stupid at worst. This might sound harsh for some new parents who are seeking a clear path being a parent.
I can understand as being a parent is a tricky business specially when it comes down to discipline and particularly toddler discipline, if you opt for the free range strategy and just let your kids kind of develop in the vain expect all will be well, then you are likely to be living some sort of living nightmare, with your kid entirely dictating the agenda and totally running your life.
On the other hand if you opt for total discipline as favored by numerous over the years, then you run the risk of totally losing the true essences of your kid's persona.
I would like to state that their is a holy grail of toddler discipline, that you can follow and tick off the list as you go, and trust me some people would try and sell it off to you that way. Just how I see it, it's regarding two core things boundaries and communication especially as your son or daughter begins to get to the toddler stage and over and above.
I still find this to be the case with my 16 and 13 old kids, I have what i refer to as my fall back position, that's as long as I will carry on any given issue, that's my boundary that in most cases my kids over a number of years have learnt to identify, however within those boundaries their is countless opportunities of freedom of expression and chances to grow as a human being that I personally feel is necessary.
To do this though good communication is vital when implementing toddler discipline, to this end I have been really fortunate to have learnt things like NLP which have assisted me shape my vocabulary skills and gestures to get maximum engagement with my children.
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