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Tips On How To Talk To Any Girl, Always Successfully.
When we speak about the topics of approaching women, or how to approach women, we invariably come up with the skill of conversation being integral to the skill of how to approach women effectively.
I've always praised at my ability to initiate conversation with anybody at any time about any topic - even when there is supposedly "nothing to talk about". It's a skill I have and in this write-up I will tell you the SIMPLE magic to my success.
The best way to spark a conversation is to ask questions. Too easy? Well, let me show.
What do you ask questions regarding?
Well, I always just ask questions about whatever I want to know. It differs from person to person. But typically if I am meeting someone new I would ask questions such as "Do you have brothers and sisters?" "Do you live with your parents?" "Do you have a lot of friends?"
Usually a person talks for a while when answering and that lends you more data to ask even more questions about. Often I will make a remark if it is appropriate or if they ask me a question in reply to my question I just answer their question then ask them a different one of my questions.
The challenging times are when people just give you "yes" and "no" type answers. That doesn't leave much to work off of.
When I sense the situation is uncomfortable or the person isn't conversing much (like the above "yes" and "no" replies), then I talk about how awkward the situation is. Tell something like "This is awful. I feel so awkward. I don't know what to speak. Do you feel awkward too?"
Usually you can get a little discussion going on that topic and ease a lot of stress just by accepting that you feel awkward and don't know what to say. Then go onto a question like "Ok, let's look at what we can speak about. What are your interests? Do you have any hobbies?"
Another questioning approach is to look at what a person puts their concentration on and discuss or ask questions about that. So, for example, if you are in a cafe and the person you are dating isn't conversing much, just looking at the menu, you might say "Kind of an interesting menu. What appears good to you?" That might encourage a conversation about food items or restaurants and menus, etc.
This approach is also good for meeting strangers. If you are in a supermarket next to some one interesting who is staring at "lamb chops" you might say: "I see you are interested in the lamb chops. Do you know a good way to prepare them, I've always wished to try them, but actually don't know how to prepare them."
Remember also that you are not necessarily going to connect with everyone you meet. So if you try, try, and try to find a decent discussion going and it doesn't happen then this is probably not the best person for you.
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